Your roommate has a new significant other. All he can do is talk about her and plan when he will see her next. He is totally devoted to her and is willing to do whatever she wishes to do without even considering his wants and desires

What is wrong with the way your roommate is acting?
a. Nothing. This is the way intimacy develops.
b. He needs to spend more time with her rather than just thinking about being with her.
c. He is "losing himself" in devotion to her, which is not healthy intimacy.
d. He needs to lose his identity and reinvent a new identity that is defined by the relationship.

Answer: C