Crystal and her husband are divorcing, and Crystal is worried about the impact of the divorce on her 10- and 13-year-old children. According to the text, all of the following tips would be good advice EXCEPT:

-do not denigrate your former husband in front of the children.
-give the children some input into custody decisions.
-try to keep the children in the same neighborhood and school.

joint custody is always the best option.