"Only someone who has already achieved a clear sense of his or her own identity can be expected to develop a truly intimate relationship with another person." This statement most closely reflects the viewpoint of

Control orientation is to problem orientation as _________ is to ____________

a. a message signals closed-mindedness; a message signals open-mindedness b. making decisions for other people; working with partners to share decision making c. evaluating another person; describing the behavior of another person d. conveys the speaker is smarter; conveys the listener is smarter

One of the hardest situations to deal with is when someone criticizes us for something we know is true. In this case, the best response is to ___________ the statement

a. disagree with b. agree with c. understand the motivation of d. ask for clarification of