Explain how friendships change across the lifespan by briefly noting the main characteristics

and distinctions of childhood, adolescent, young adult, adult, and late adult friendships.

What will be an ideal response?

(Note: The question could be reduced to two of the friendship types if desired.)
*As we age we develop a more complex view of friendship. According to Howard Markman,
self-disclosure did not seem to change in either depth or amount from young adulthood through
age 91.
*Childhood friendships: During age 3-7 we have momentary playmates. In age 4-9 our
friendships involve one-way assistance; we view friendships from a "take" perspective. Age 6-
12 comprises the fair-weather friend stage, which has a bit more reciprocity. Age 9-14 is called
mutual intimacy. In this stage relationships become more possessive. Age 12 to adulthood
allows for greater independence.
* Adolescent friendships: From puberty on (age 12 ) we move away from relationships with
parents and other adults and toward more intimacy with peers. During this time peer
relationships significantly influence our identity and social skills. We explore values, negotiate
new relationships, discover romantic and sexual opportunities, become more other-oriented, and
seek increased intimacy. We develop friendship cliques and networks.
* Young adult friendships: Young adult friendships (late teens through early 30s) are linked to a
succession of changes in our lifestyles and goals. Those who go from high school straight into
the workforce have different experiences than those who continue formal education. Young
adults and adolescents have some similarities in terms of loyalty, warmth, and having shared
experiences. Friendships during this time hone our skills for successful romantic relationships.
*Adult friendships: Adult friendships are those we have from our 30s through our 60s – the
relationships we maintain through the prime of our work and family lives. Adult friendships are
among our most valued relationships, providing emotional support, partners for activities, and
socializing opportunities. Marriage can lead to an expansion of friendship networks.
*Late adulthood friendships: Although people make new friends during their late adulthood, they
value their long-established friendships the most. Older adults are less likely to form new
friendships; instead they tend to maintain a small, highly valued network of friends.