Group members who look for meaning in the people using words rather than in the words themselves are less likely to bypass or be bypassed

Fireman and stewardess are examples of ________ language

Fill in the blank with the appropriate word.

Lisa wants some time alone because she feels a need to get in touch with herself as an individual. However, she also feels the need to share experiences with her partner Bob and cherishes the time they spend together. The tension these different needs are generating within Lisa illustrates which relational dialectic? [p. 202, III]

a. autonomy/connection b. novelty/predictability c. commitment/love d. spontaneity/routine e. closedness/openness