In a well-developed essay, explain the elements of interpersonal attraction. Include a

discussion of factors that affect attraction.

What will be an ideal response?

Attraction is the degree to which you desire to form and possibly maintain an
interpersonal relationship with another person. It consists first of short-term initial
attraction, which is the degree to which you sense a potential for developing an
interpersonal relationship. Later, you may have a long-term maintenance attraction,
the type that sustains relationships like a close friendship or intimate relationship.
Physical attraction acts as a filter to limit the possibilities for relationships. We use
physical attraction to make an initial assessment of the desirability of pursuing a
relationship. We tend to seek out others who are somewhat similar to us physically.
Proximity is an essential element that helps determine to whom we will be attracted.
We are simply more likely to come into contact with people who are physically close.
This proximity also increases the likelihood of communication. The ability to exchange
information increases our ability to make an informed choice. This does not mean that
people who are physically distant cannot initiate and develop relationships, but it is
more difficult and takes more time and energy to accomplish. The Internet has helped
in this area to open us up to people who are far away.
Similarity in attitudes, values, beliefs, and behaviors is also a factor in attraction. We
tend to like people who are like us. While differences may add spice to a relationship,
similarities are the real foundation of long-term relationships. Similarity may also affect
proximity in as much as we are more likely to come into contact with people who share
similar interests and activities.
Complementary needs affects attraction through our assessment of how well the other
can satisfy our needs. When people have complementary needs it increases the
likelihood that both will have his or her needs met. In fact, we seek out people who can
satisfy our needs.