Explain how the grave-dressing process works when a relationship comes apart.
What will be an ideal response?
Grave dressing involves the creation of a story regarding why a relationship died and the erection of a metaphorical tombstone that summarizes its main points from birth to death. The process also involves storytelling, and the usual form of breakup story follows a narrative structure that portrays the speaker as a dedicated but alert relater who went into the relationship realizing it was not perfect and needed work. Praise for the relationship is often included in the grave-dressing process.
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Margolis, in anticipating his next public speaking assignment, thinks that while he may not be the most skilled speaker, he is intelligent, he knows how to research a topic, and if he spends some time practicing he ought to be able to get at least a "C." Margolis is most likely engaging in which technique for improving self-esteem?
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