Explain how and why the following factors affect interpersonal attraction:
(1) familiarity, including the effects of physical proximity; (2) similarity and the concept of homogamy; (3) physical attractiveness and how it affects males and females differently; and (4) reciprocity.
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ANSWER: Answer will include (1) Familiarity: In general, we are attracted to people we are familiar with. In fact, our choice of friends and even lovers is based more on physical proximity (nearness) than we might care to believe. Proximity promotes attraction by increasing the frequency of contact between people. The closer people live to each other, the more likely they are to become friends. Although there does seem to be a "boynextdoor" or "girlnextdoor" effect in romantic attraction, and a "folksnext door" effect in friendship, the Internet is making it increasingly easier to stay in constant "virtual contact," which is leading to more and more longdistance friendships and romances. (2) Similarity refers to how alike you are to another person in background, age, interests, attitudes, beliefs, and so forth. In everything from casual acquaintance to marriage, similar people are attracted to each other because it is reinforcing to see our beliefs and attitudes shared by others. It shows we are "right" and reveals that they are clever people as well. In choosing a mate we also tend to marry someone who is like us in almost every way, a pattern called homogamy.
Studies show that married couples are highly similar in age, education, ethnicity, and religion and, to a lesser degree, in attitudes and opinions, mental abilities, status, height, weight, and eye color. Homogamy also applies to unmarried couples who are living together. It should be noted that the risk of divorce is highest among couples with sizable differences in age and education. (3) Physical attractiveness: People who are physically attractive are regarded as good-looking by